There are many different circumstances one could find themselves in following the demise of a relationship. Sometimes, your ex-girlfriend is still single for a long period of time after the break up or she has gone through a series of rebounds that weren’t very serious because she needed to get through the loneliness. However, there are times in which an ex-girlfriend will quickly move on to another serious relationship or simply divest themselves emotionally from the previous relationship and want to move on with their lives.
In the latter type of situation, it can be extremely difficult to try to get back together with someone and most of the time simply not even worth trying to do. When she moves on, it can be a definite thing, and once she’s confident in her decision there is very little that you can say or do to help to change her mind. The reality of the situation is that she may indeed be gone for good and if it has gotten to this point that it is very likely that she is.
It is important that you start to see things how they really are and stop the notions in your head that everything will all be fine if you just do one or two things to make the relationship happen again. If you’re relationship has ended, then it definitely had problems, simple as that.
Thinking that things will be the same if you were to get back together is a form of delusion on your part. Even if you were to get back together with her, things wouldn’t be the same, the relationship would have to evolve into a new form in order to have a chance of succeeding. Things change and people do too. If she has changed enough to move on from the relationship, then that is a good sign that you should probably do the same. At least enough to learn how to live on your own again before trying to jump start the failed relationship.
Moving on, for your part, means learning to accept things as they are now and to learn to be happy on your own. Learn to cope with the loneliness and figure out ways to grow as a person, so that you can make a sound decision about what route you want to follow, either moving on completely or actually trying to make things work with her. These addictive feelings you may have for her are not healthy and are not a valid reason to try and get back together. They are simply a form of dependency.
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There is a great deal of fear and uncertainty following a break up. This can be especially true if you see your ex-girlfriend moving on while you are still pining for her everyday and haven’t really done anything with your life since she left. There may be a fear that if you do not get her back that you will end up alone. That doesn’t have to be the case, there are plenty of other girls out there who are available but you also need to be strong enough to learn how to be happy on your won. not to be stuck in the past or chasing after your ex who may no longer be interested in you.
Your ex may now be seeing another guy and you want to win her over to you because you have some fear that he may be a better man than you. A lot of this kind of stuff is simply ego. It comes with not being able to accept life and the changes that come along with it, you can’t stand losing because you perceive that your value as a man is lowered. Basically equating getting your ex-girlfriend back with proving your self worth. This is a very unhealthy way to look at things and can lead you to do things such as meddling in her current relationship or trying to drive a wedge between them. Stop being desperate. Learn to be on your own and be happy on your own before deciding if you should try to spark things anew with her.
One question you definitely need to answer before deciding if you want to get back together with an ex is, what has really changed? If you and her were to get back together today, why would it work out this time? What has been resolved in the underlying issues of the relationship? If the answer is not much in the way of positive changes, then you’re chasing a false dream. Going back to a girl simply because you now miss her because she is seeing someone else or your options are limited is pretty damn lazy and a waste of time. The two of you may be on completely divergent paths now and going back simply is not an option for you. Most relationships don’t work out for the rest of your life, but each one is helpful in learning from and applying those lessons to future relationships with women.
If You Really Still Want Her Back…
There are some guys who have actually been through the whole process of healing and growing as a person and still feel that they want their ex-girlfriend back in their lives. If that is the case and you feel like you’re in a really good spot emotionally and in your life then you may consider using a program to help you get things going again with your ex.
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